Find freedom where you are
MARCUS FELLOWES
I’m here to help you get off the Mindline.
The Shift
For years, my life looked perfect on paper. I operated in high-stakes corporate finance, enjoyed a career as a professional singer, and founded a successful natural skin and hair care company. I had achieved a great deal, yet I was haunted by a persistent, quiet sense that "something was missing."
Like most high-performers, I treated this feeling as a problem to be solved. I went into the Workshop, using every tool available to try and "fix" myself so I could finally feel complete. I didn't realise that the act of "fixing" was what was keeping the struggle alive.
The Two Insights
My exit from that loop came through two distinct moments of clear seeing that changed the mechanics of my life:
1. The Mind (The Noise): During a high-pressure audition, my mind began its usual "Self-Repair" routine - flooding me with negative critiques. I stopped it mid-flow and realised: If you’re my mind, you should be on my side. If you have nothing constructive to say, shut up. In that confrontation, the noise stopped. I saw the Mindline for what it was - a series of unnecessary restarts.
2. The Feeling (The Truth): I stopped running from the sensation that "something was missing." Instead of trying to distract myself with a new "Perceived Solution," I simply stayed with the feeling. I looked directly at it. In that stillness, I realised the sensation was neutral; it was only my mind’s interpretation that turned it into a problem.
Your Facilitator
I do not work as a coach or a therapist. I act as a Facilitator of Clear Seeing.
Having navigated these loops in the boardroom, on stage, and in business, I help you identify the specific mechanical labels that keep you trapped in the Workshop. My role is to provide the objective perspective needed to catch the "Restart" in real-time.
I live in the South Devon countryside with my wife, our two teenage sons, and our two dogs. When I’m not writing or facilitating sessions for those ready to live their best lives, you’ll find me out in nature - simply staying in the Gap.
I don’t offer more tools for your Workshop, or provide entertainment for you while you're in the Waiting Room. I facilitate the moment you finally leave them behind.